27 Questions | Getting to Know Your Man
Often times we as women get caught up with being the center of attention in the relationship.
We want to be courted. We want the door opened for us, the chair pulled out, and the puddle covered. But more often than not, we forget to court our men. I'm not saying you need to pull out his chair. I'm just saying they have feelings and want to be heard too.
This led me to think about how many women take the time out to really get to know their man. So I came across a really interesting article with questions for us ladies to ask our gents that will score some real points with him, and plenty of insight for us (original article noted at the end of the blog).
Also, here's a quick rule of thumb, you'll need to ask him these questions away from the everyday hustle and bustle. So maybe when you're laying in the bed with the television off, no facebook or insta to deter you, and give him your undivided attention as he answers.
I chose to ask my questions on a road trip we took to the desert (planned by your truly). So, here they are:
1.) What’s something you always wanted to do as a child but never got to do it?
2.) If you could have one super power, what would it be?
3.) What is one of your dreams that I can help you achieve?
4.) What makes you feel overwhelmed?
5.) What is your best memory of our dating years?
6.) What could I do to make you feel more respected?
7.) If you could bring one fictional character to life, who would it be and why?
8.) What can I do to encourage and support you better?
9.) If you could master one musical instrument, what would it be?
10.) How do you like to be kissed?
11.) What is one thing I can do to show you how much I love you?
12.) What is one bad habit you need to break but you don’t want to?
13.) If you could change your age forever, what age would you choose and why?
14.) What did your parents teach you that you appreciate now?
15.) What is your guilty pleasure?
16.) Describe to me your ideal day?
17.) What is your favorite movie of all time?
18.) What are ways I can make you feel safe?
19.) How can I show you that I am listening to you?
20.) What achievement in my life would bring you great joy?
21.) Do you believe in a higher power (i.e. God, Jesus, Mother Nature, etc. )
22.) What was the moment when you laughed harder than you’ve ever laughed?
23.) What can I do to make you feel more confident in our future
24.) How often would you like to go out on a date night?
25.) What is your favorite thing about yourself?
26.) What mutual goal would you like to see us accomplish?
27.) What is something you would like us to do to invest in our relationship/marriage this year?
Hope you enjoyed getting to know your partner, also please feel free to ask the questions in reverse (to your woman). I'd love to hear about how it went.
Any-who, leave a comment, let me know if I missed any questions, or just share your experience.
Also, a special shout out to Jeep. I love my Jeep!!!!
Love you guys and gals,